FreE | The DESIRES TRACKER

Uncover exactly what you want in 30 minutes.

When you're not clear on what you want, you default to what's expected, and success starts to feel flat. The Desires Tracker uses my 3-part method to help you get clear on what you actually want and build an action plan around it.


Exact tracker + video walkthrough. Instant access.

  • You've hit goals that were supposed to feel amazing, and instead you're quietly asking "is this it?"
  • Someone asks what you want and your mind goes blank, even though you're the woman with a plan for everything else
  • You're chasing a number you picked years ago, and you're not sure it's even the right one anymore
  • You scroll past another woman's life and feel a pang you've been taught to feel guilty about
Yes, That's Me. Send It.
Asking "what do you want?" almost never works, and You can't have what you can't name.

In 12+ years of coaching high achievers, I've watched brilliant women freeze at that question. It's not that they don't know. They've spent years tuning out their own wants to get everything else done.

So the tracker doesn't ask you directly. It comes at your desires from three angles: what you're tired of tolerating, who you're quietly jealous of, and what you'd choose if nothing held you back. The answers are already in you. This just helps you find them.

Then it goes further than a vision board ever will. You'll put a real price on each desire, rate how much you want it, and see exactly what to go after first. That's how a wish list becomes a plan.
  1. The Tolerations Audit. List everything you're quietly putting up with, from the clients who drain you to the economy seats. When I first did this, I found over 60. Each one becomes a desire you can act on.
  2. The Jealousy Map. That pang when you see her house, her business, her freedom is your clearest signal of what you want. Stop hiding from it and let it show you where to go next.
  3. The Real Cost Calculator. Put an actual price on your dream life. Most women I work with think they need millions and discover phase one costs a fraction of that. Suddenly it's not someday, it's this year.
  4. The Flip-the-Switch Column. Name the belief that's keeping each desire out of reach, then rewrite it so it stops running the show.

WHAT'S INSIDE

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AMANDA BOND, MARKETING EXPERT

“Starting to go through the pre-work, and I'm OBSESSED with the Tolerations Tracker."

ABOUT EMILY

Hi, I'm Emily. For 12+ years I've helped ambitious women stop living by default and start living by desire. The first time I did this exercise, I found over 60 things I was tolerating. This is where everything changed.

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