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How to Be Magnetic to What You Want



I help you stop making excuses, transform your mindset to match your big vision and ultimately create your dream life.

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Chances are you’re reading this because you have a big vision. 

So, what is it that you’re craving?

Now, ask yourself this…

Are you attracting or repelling that desire? 

The truth is, it has to be one or the other.  

Within my companies, we truly believe anything is possible for you in your life, business, or career. No dream is too big. No desire is out of reach… as long as you are willing to do the work, get in the right mindset, and take action toward those desires. 

Luckily, with the right steps, we all have the power to be magnetic to our biggest dreams and boldest desires.

Keep reading to learn the very steps that can have you attracting all that you want in your personal and professional life.

Let’s get to the good stuff, shall we? 

1️⃣ Get clear on the goal.

Maybe you’re looking to attract more financial abundance, more clients for your business, or a partner to share your life with. Regardless of what the goal is, you must start by getting clear on what it is you want. 

You don’t necessarily need to know the how just yet, but getting specific on the “what” is the key to staying focused throughout the process. Ask yourself this: “What is it I actually want?” Get as specific as possible. 

2️⃣ Identify the low-hanging fruit.

We’re often leaving things on the table that could be used to help us get closer to our goal. Oftentimes, women aren’t as specific or obvious about their desires. We’re taught to play it small, but that’s no way to achieve big goals.

So, ask yourself this: “What do I have at my fingertips that I’m not capitalizing on or being obvious with?” Then think about how you can change that.  Maybe it’s sending a sales letter to your list, connecting with your following, or celebrating an upcoming program launch in a Facebook ad. Identify the fastest, easiest, and most joyful way to get the results you want (and then do it). 

3️⃣  Show up with unwavering faith.

As you’re moving forward with your action, you need to show up with faith. Show up like you know what you want is coming your way. You can’t get wrapped up in negative experiences because it only spreads negative energy. 

For example, instead of letting an unopened email or an unfollow bring you down, flip the script. Look at it as a process of weeding people out so you can better focus on people who really want what you have to offer. However you reframe it, keep moving forward. Remind yourself that your desires are meant for you and continue to move toward them. 

4️⃣  Reconnect with your purpose and desires.

Whether you’re in a space where you need to get magnetic for the first time, or find that magnetic energy again, go back to your why. Reconnect to your purpose. Reconnect to that thing that you really want. 

Make sure it’s something that lights a fire under you. Ask yourself if it’s exciting to you. Does it still carry significance and meaning for you? If not, it might be time to consider a change in direction. 

5️⃣ Take (big) action, getting support when needed.

Success happens when you choose to show up. When you commit and say yes to doing the work. Once you identify what you are trying to achieve, it’s equally important to acknowledge where you need support. Ask yourself where you need help and who or where you can turn to for support.

Really ask yourself this: How can I do my part and move things along? What is that action step and who do I need to help make it happen? How can I make decisions based on where I want to be, not from where I currently am? Really look at how you are showing up, and if you’re not committed to going all in, it might be time to change that. 

Here’s a bonus tip for you…

You have to be willing to get uncomfortable. Maybe you’ve heard it said that progress happens outside of your comfort zone. Well, it’s true. When you stay committed to the process and take action despite your fears and doubts, you will start attracting what it is you want. 

Before you know it, being magnetic to what you want will become part of who you are. It will become embedded in how you live. 

Remember, we’re either attracting things, or we’re repelling them.

So, which one will you choose? 

P.S. Listen to the full IHML Show episode on this topic here.

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Hi, I'm Emily Williams, and according to my clients, fairy godmother of making your dreams come true.

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